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| Social Comparison - gain knowledge of self through others |
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| seeking out rewarding relationships |
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| factors that influence affiliation needs |
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evolutionary
biology and arousability
culture
gender |
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born shy, learned reaction from failing
negative self image |
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| feeling of deprivation about existing social relationships |
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Age 18-30
men and women about the same |
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| situation factors that trigger affiliation needs |
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Proximity - physical closeness
Familiarity - seeing someone more often increases attraction
Anxiety - Shatner - beings with others decreases anxiety |
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| what-is-good-is-good sterotype |
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| looking good makes others think other qualities about you are good too |
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| high self monitor vs. low self monitor |
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high - date attractive woman
low - date good personality
low SM acts consistent w/ personality |
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| people look for relationships which are emotionally equivalent |
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| Stimulus - Value - Role Theory |
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Stimulus Stage - Attraction started by physical appearance
Value Stage - Attachment is based on similarity of values and beliefs |
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| people are motivated to get more rewards, less cost in relationships |
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exchange - keep it about equal
communal - there for the other person |
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anxious - crys when parent leaves, mad when they come back
avoidant - non shalant when parent leaves, ignore when come back
secure - cry then are happy |
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| arousal caused by one stimulus is added to the arousal of a 2nd stimulus and combined arousal is attributed to the 2nd stimulus |
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| Steenbergs Triangular theory of love |
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Intimacy - passion - commitment
2 of 3 |
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secure, stable
dimunition of passion
self disclosure |
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| coping with failing relationship |
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