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com 425 exam 2
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Communication
Undergraduate 4
11/08/2009

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Term

romantic beliefs scale

 

problems with previous research

Definition
  • several previous scales used language or expressed ideas that were dated
  • few scales captured the full range of beliefs associated with romance
  • some scales confounded romantic beliefs with other types of love
Term

romantic beliefs scale

 

method

Definition
  • collected scales, rewrote items, tested over a series of studies with 1152 respondents
  • N=730
  • they collected demographics, RBS bem's sex role inventory, & several other loves scales in order to compare measures
Term

romantic beliefs scale

 

descriptions of each belief comprising RBS

Definition
  • love at first sight
  • love finds a way
  • one and only love
  • idealization (idea that your partner is perfect)
Term

RBS

 

findings

 

Definition
  • RBS is a valid and reliable indicator of the ideology of romanticism
  • men report higher total RBS scores than women
  • people high in femininity report higher RBS scores than people in low femininity
  • findings are consistent with the functionalist perspective
  • Note flaws in BSRI
Term

rose colored glasses

 

falling in love

Definition
  • may initially "squelch" sexual feelings
  • is a selective response to a unique other person
  • orientation is to the whole person
Term

rose colored glasses

 

description of falling into lust

Definition
  • sexual desire
  • non-selective
  • orientation is to the object or part, rather than the whole person
Term

rose colored glasses

 

results for study 1

"in love"

Definition
  • more erotic & agapic
  • less ludic
  • less permissive & instrumental in sex attitudes
  • lower self-monitoring
  • lower sensation-seeking
Term

rose colored glasses

 

results for study 1

 

women found to be:

Definition
  •  more storgic
  • more pragmatic
  • less ludic
  • less permissive in sex attitudes
  • lower sensation seeking
  • no manic
Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

description of characteristics of relationship prior to decline

Definition
  • friends before dating seem more likely to be able to re-establish friendship
  • friends more likely to choose "scale down", non friends choose "full  break"
  • friends have a "foundation" and may have a "script"
  • relationships with high level of emotional & psychological involvement may be more likely to maintain friendship, compared to low involvement couples
Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

3 choices when faced with dissatisfying relationship & ducks work

 

Definition
  • endure
  • terminate
  • redefine
  • ducks work suggests that strategy accounts for 17% of variance
Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

disengagement strategies

 

Definition
  • de-escalation
    • reduce intensity & commitment
    • more likely to remain friends
  • justification
    • express reasons for breakup
  • avoidance
    • avoid all contact

*all strategies do not exist in a vacuum

Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

influence of emotion

Definition
  • equity theory
    • under-benefited--> anger
    • over-benefited-->guilt
  • schwartz & shaver suggest emotions are caused by "percieved unfairness"
Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

influence of gender (sex)

Definition
  • research  by hill, suggests that couples are more likely to stay friends if men initiate breakup or if it was mutual
  • 70% of couples remain friends when men initiates breakup
  • men have more difficulty letting go of love
Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

strategies: reported by both initiator and recipient

Definition
  • withdrawal
  • positive tone
  • manipulation
  • directness
Term

metts: redefining romantic relationships

 

results for initiator

Definition
  • 3 variables significantly predicted friendship
    • withdrawal strategy (b=-.40)
    • previous friendship (b=.19)
    • feeling under benefited (b=-.23)
  • no effect for sex, involvement or emotions

 

Term

metts : redefining romantic relationships

 

results for recipient

Definition
  • 3 variables
    • positive tone (b=.36)
    • previous friendship(b.=21)
    • manipulation (b=.14)
  • no effect for sex, involvement or emotions
Term

routine maintenence behaviors

 

4 purposes

Definition
  • extend existing typologies
  • compare dating and married couples
  • examine similarity between partners responses
  • examine sex differences
Term

routine maintenence behaviors

 

distinction between strategy and routine behaviors

Definition
  • "strategy" implies intention
  • routine behaviors take place at a lower level of consciousness
    • lack of central processing
    • taken for granted behaviors
  • routine maintenence behavior is NOT used intentionally for maintenance purposes
    • sole funtion or goal is NOT to maintain relationship
Term

routine maintenence behaviors

 

previous definitions

Definition
  • tatics designed to make one more likeable to partner
  • strategies used for preventative and corrective purposes
  • efforts by partners to sustain satisfactory relational definition
Term

routine maintenence behaviors

 

method

Definition
  • self report survey data
  • n=243 couples, dating and married
  • m=31.9 years old, 13.5 yrs married, 2.4 years dating
  • "provide examples of behaviors used to maintain your relationship"
  • "describe the routine things you do"
Term

routine maintenence behaviors

 

results

12 categories of behaviors-top 5 categories

Definition
  • top 5 categories
    • sharing tasks
    • proactive & prosocial
    • sharing time
    • favors and gifts
    • self-disclosure
Term

routine maintence behaviors

 

results

h1

Definition
  • h1 was not supported
    • only significant differences between dating and married couples was that dating reported more mediated communication, married reported more shared tasks
  • couples more similar than different in their use of maintenence behaviors
Term

routine maintenence behaviors

 

results

women different from men in routine use of 4 behaviors

Definition
  • positivity
  • talk
  • openness
  • anti-social behaviors
Term

emotion

 

two common indicators of closeness

Definition
  • magnitude of affect
  • hedonic sign of affect
Term

emotion

 

4 quadrants of closeness

Definition
  • high & positive affect
    • most people would describe this as a close relationship
  • high & negative affect
    • tends to be extremely stable relationship, seperation from partner highlights feelings
  • low & positive affect
    • stable, has been through the test, usually long term relationship
  • low & negative
    • occasionally you annoy me, you can be annoyed with something, but when its gone you might miss it
Term

emotion

 

4 common elements shared by theories of emotion

Definition
  • evolutionary perspective (you have to explain how emotion is a rational mechanism for survival)
  • physiological component
    • james lange-experience something exciting, viscera start activating (different viscera activate different emotions)
    • cannon- viscera are relatively insensitive structures that are going through the same physiology but different emotional stages
  • cognitive component
    • schachter's 2 requirements (you have physiological arousal to something, but make sense of the setting you are in)
      • percieve the arousal
      • label the emotion
        • cognitive evaluation
  • the continuous feedback loop among components of emotional experience
Term

emotion

 

mandler's theory of emotion

ANS, CIS

Definition
  • ANS is comprised of sympathetic & parasympathetic nervous systems
    • "s" for sympathetic, parasymphatic is what calms you down
  • ANS arousal has physiological & psychological adaptive importance
    • 2 functions- works as an alarm: making you focus attention (psychological), and preparing your body (physiological) backup warning system (ANS)
  • CIS organizes past information so we can interpret new information
Term

emotion

 

mandler's theory of emotion

meaning analysis

 

Definition
  • determined by 2 factors
    •  
      • complexity of the structures
      • state of the person at the time stimulus comes into play
    Term

    emotion

    mandler's theory of emotion

    stop rule

    Definition
    • once youve made a decision, you stop your meaning analysis. once you make a decision you stop analyzing
      • series of actions that are emitted as a whole
    Term

    emotion

     

    mandlers theory of emotion

    • hierarchy of sequences
    • golden rule
    • 3 steps that occur during onset of emotional experience
    Definition

    hierarchy of sequences

    • golden rule-interruption is a necessary condition for ANS arousal
    • 3 steps- 1. ANS fires 2. focus attention 3. conduct meaning analysis
    Term

    emotions

     

    emotional investment

    Definition
    • the degree to which you are vulnerable to interruptions from events in the other persons chain
    • potential to experience emotion from another person
    • both interruptive and facilitative connections
    • amount of emotion experienced is associated with only the interfering connections
    • the paradox is that the more meshed up you are, the less you will experience emotion on a daily basis (it will require radically deviany behavior)

     

    Term

    emotions

    2 explanations for emotionally tranquil relationships

    Definition
    • all connections are facilitative
    • there are no connections
    Term

    emotions

     

    implications for conflict and attention

     

    conflict

    Definition
    • no interest in partners activities. ex: i cant talk about ex-gf anymore because we always fight
    • run risk of emotionally gutting relationship
    • be careful about what you resolve
    Term

    emotion

     

    implications for conflict and attention

    attention

     

    Definition
    • if everything is meshed, less emotion
    • attractive co-worker/stranger, no reason for you to focus emotion on that partner
    Term

    emotion

     

    fundamental paradox of positive emotion

    Definition
    • control hypothesis: ex: cover eyes during movie
    • ex: waiting in line for rollercoaster, can leave whenever
      • when individual has no control over the onset or the offset of the interrupting stimulus, will be negative emotions
    Term

    emotions

     

    applications for conflict-habituated couples

    Definition

    conflict-habituated interactions :

    • stability of relationship
    • if conflict is a habit then it is not interruptive
    • fighting has become meshed and no not threaten the partners or relationship
    Term

    emotions

     

    applications for jealousy

    Definition
    • it is a "normal" emotion
    • mixture of fear and anger ex: ex bf or gf- angry and fear of losing
    • more meshed couples more vulnerable to jealousy
    • alternative- "good mesh" is more threatening, ex: best friend is a lot like you, and its more threatening
    Term

    jealousy

     

    definition

    Definition

    the emotional reaction to a percieved threat to an existing relationship

    or a protective reaction to a perceived threat to a valued relationship

    Term

    jealousy

     

    distinctions between jealousy, rivalry and envy

    Definition
    • jealousy stems from perceptions of threat to an existing relationship
    • envy stems from desiring something that someone else has
    • rivalry occurs when two people compete for something
    Term

    jealousy

     

    tesser's SEM and BIRGing

    Definition
    • tesser's self evaluation maintenence model
    • strong feelings of envy highly likely when close other succeeds in an area that is important to you
    • BIRGing of somebody else (area that isn't as close to you)- feel happy for them
    Term

    jealousy

     

    causes of jealousy

    Definition
    • investment discrepancy/inequity
    • dependency on relationship
    • desire for sexual exclusivity
    Term

    jealousy

     

    pfeiffer & wong's MJS findings

    Definition
    • described three cognitive components of jealousy
      • cognitive, emotional and behavorial
    • findings
      • liking associated with lower levels of jealousy compared to loving
    Term

    jealousy

     

    stages of experiencing jealousy

    Definition
  • primary appraisal--> percieving a threat to a relationship influenced by thresholds for
    • qualities of relationship
    • type of relationship (friend/family)
    • severity of threat--> characteristic, realistic, nature
    • type of threat
    • time away from partner (work, games, friends)
  • secondary appraisal-->interpertation stage :attempts to understand and begin to cope
    • review and interpret evidence
    • catastrophic thinking--> worst possible situation
  • third component
    • blend of emotions
      • anger, fear, surprise, depression
  • Term

    jealousy

     

    table 10.4/ gender findings

    Definition
    • men and women have different concerns when it comes to jealousy. diff ways of coping
    • women think about not being able to find another partner/no one will want me
    • women are more likely to attempt to induce jealousy
    • men are more likely to experience the "rooster effect"--> anger when other men cut them out of an interantion with a woman (p282)
    • men deny jealousy
    Term

    jealousy

     

    hansens work

    findings

    Definition
  • findings
    • least amount of jealousy evoked by night out with same sex friends
    • most jealousy evoked by casual sex affair
    • women more jealous than men regarding
      • hobby and time with family
  • Term

    jealousy

     

    hansens work

    implications

    Definition

    implications

    • opposite sex friendship expectations
      • both male and female uncomfortable with opposite sex friendship
        • expect them to give up friendship
    Term

    jealousy

     

    hansens work

    time expectations

    Definition
  • time expectations
    • women define dating relationships as time spent
  • Term

    jealousy

     

    hansens work

    sexual expectations

    Definition
    both men and women expect to be monogomous after long-term relationship
    Term

    betrayal

     

    two major psychological dangers of intimacy and distinctions between the two

    Definition

     

    • BETRAYAL AND REJECTION-distinction between the two:
      • rejection occurs faily early in the acquaintanceship process
      • betrayal can occur at any point in a relationship
      • betrayal has a greater potential for psychological damage
      • betrayal often means that you have lost something that you have invested into a relationship
      • they suggest that betrayal arises from problems with expectations, commitment or trust
    Term

    betrayal

     

    relationship expectations

    Definition
    • most basic aspect of any relationship
    • global (or general) expectations apply to any relationship
    • specific expectations arise from patterns in a particular relationship
    • violation of expectations may result in feelings of betrayal
    Term

    betrayal

     

    commitment

    Definition
  • commitment
    • in commited relationships, each partner assumes some responsibility for the welfare of the other partner
    • demonstrated by effort and and energy
      • women get jealous about time
    • perceptions of lessening commitment often linked to betrayal
  • Term

    betrayal

     

    trust

    Definition
    • most important and satisfying relatnioships are characterized by trust
    • trust is the ability to rely on partner to do what is promised and to be faithful
    • trust is also the ability to self-disclose and be yourself without fear
    • loss of trust linked to betrayal
    Term

    betrayal

     

    IBS findings

    Definition

     

    • ibs scores tend to be higher (more likely to betray) among:
      • young
      • less educated
      • divorced
      • white
      • non-religious
      • children of divorce
      • children of alcoholics
    • self reported betrayal was unrelated to marital satisfaction for either men or women (you were betrayer)
    • marital satisfaction and commitment unrelated to spouses betrayal scores for either husbands or wives *cant predict*
    Term

    betrayal

     

    types of betrayal

    Definition
  • most commonly reported type of betrayal for men was extramarital affair
  • most commonly reported type of betrayal for women was affair (tied with betrayed confidence)
  • table 12.2
    • men more likely to betray partners and be betrayed by co-workers
    • women more likely to betray partners and be betrayed by partners
  • Term

    infidelity

     

    description of attitudes toward marraige and infedelity

    Definition
    • attitudes toward marriage and infedelity change with the times
    • primary focus of this study is to examine the relationship between inequity and extramarital sexual desires & behaviors
    Term

    infedelity

     

    equity theory

    Definition
    • suggests that people compare their input/output ratio to a relevant comparison other's input/output ratio
    • inequity leads to feelings of distress
    • inequity is the reason that drives us to cheat
    Term

    infidelity

     

    3 reasons why under-benefited seek extramarital involvement

    Definition
    • restoration of actual equity
      • get even by having affair, increase your rewards and decrease partners rewards by inducing jealousy
    • leaving the field
      • affair is a disengagement strategy
    • equity with the world
      • deprived person is entitled to seek compensation elsewhere for inequitable relationship in another relationship
    Term

    infidelity

     

    reason why over benefited seek extramarital involvement

    Definition
    • because they desire equity
      • inequality is aversive
    • so that they can justify their current over-benefited status
      • affair proves that they deserve to be over-benefited
    Term

    infidelity

     

    variables

    Definition
    • exchange orientation
      • degree of tolorance for reciprocity
    • sexual satisfaction
    • AIDS disapproval
    • normative disapproval
      • moral disapproval of cheating
    Term

    infidelity

     

    findings

    Definition
    • women had a stronger exchange orientation that did men
    • women felt more under benefited
    • men felt more overbenefited
    • men reported higher scores in relational satisfaction
    • men had a stronger desire to engage in EMS
    • actual EMS behavior didnt diffet between men & women
    • aids disapproval didnt influence or desire actual EMS
      • FOR MEN:
      • normative disapproval was the only variable that influenced actual behavior
      • exchange orientation did not influence EMS desire or behavior
      • FOR WOMEN:
      • normative disapproval & relationship satisfaction influenced actual EMS behavior
      • exchange orientation influenced both EMS desire and behavior
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