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Develop Relationships to fulfill needs:
Inclusion, affection and control (Schutz)
Lesson loneliness, Secure stimulation, gain self knowledge/self esteem, maximize pleasure/ minimize pain (DeVito) |
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Characteristics of Relational Development |
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Variability
Duration
Frequency |
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- Duration - How long relationship lasts
- Frequency- How often we interact/ have contact with that person
Low duration - High frequency (teacher/ Classmates)
High duration- High frequency (Mate/ Spouse)
High Duration- low frequency (Parents)
Low duration- Low frequency (acquaintances ie bus driver) |
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Characteristics of relationships |
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Variability
Duration
Frequency
Meshing
Support
Proximity- changing because of tech
Dynamic/ Dialectical Tensions |
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Stages of Relationship Development (KNAPP) |
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Initiating- Context, Positive info , open ended questions, low self disclosure
Experimenting
Intensifying
Integrating
Bonding - marriage, contract/ partnership |
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Stages of Relational Development (DeVito) |
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Contact (initiating)
Involvement (Experimenting)
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Intimacy (Bonding)
Deterioration
Repair
Dissolution |
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Theories of Relationship Development |
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Uncertainty reduction Social Penetration Relationship Dialectics Attraction Social Exchange Equity |
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Uncertainty Reduction Theory
Berger & Calabrese, 1975 |
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Premise: The more we know the more we like, the more intimacy we have toward the 'other'
- Predicts that higher uncertainty deters intimacy and liking
- Low uncertainty creates intimacy and liking (positive affect)
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Social Penetration Theory |
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Premise: Relationships intimacy level depends on the increased depth and breadth of communication topics, Self disclosure
Depenetration: As a relationship moves away from intimacy, relationship depth and breadth decrease |
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Relationship Dialectics Theory/ Tensions
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Premise: There are opposing forces (dialectical tensions) with in relationships
- Intimacy and Autonomy
- Novelty and Predictability
- Openness and Closeness
With US couples it is necessary for balance
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Focuses on our tendency (to move) toward another person due to:
- Physical Appearance:
- Proximity:
- Similarity:
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We are more likely to interact with ppl who are attractive
More important for males than females
Related to how enjoyable we find the person/ interaction
Interdependent Dimensions:
- Task: attracted based on our desire to work with them
- Social: fun to be with
- Physical Appearance: they are attractive
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Greatest predictors of initial Interaction
Allows us to reduce uncertainty
mere exposure seems to increase attraction |
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Relationship development is more likely if we have relational symmetry
Matching Hypothesis - Date marry and have friends who are at the same level of attractiveness that we are
Similarity in Attitudes
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Opposites attract?
We are attracted to people who posses characteristics that we do not posses and actually envy them
Research supports symmetry
but Complementarity in need |
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Attraction is based on liking |
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Affinity seeking strategies ( Bell and Daly)
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Premise: We develop relationships with those who reward us and avoid / end relationships that do not reward us
Reward/ punishments are relative to the individual
- Social Exchange Theory
- Equity Theory
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Social Exchange Theory
(Thibaut and Kelly) |
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Premise: We seek relationships which will maximize profit (reward) and minimize cost (punishment)
Reward - Cost = Profit
Comparison Levels
We compare our realistic expectations of what we deserve from a relationship to what we're actually getting
Comparison Levels for Alternatives
We compare the profits we can derive from other relationships (alternatives) to what we are getting from our current relationship
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Equity Theory
(Walster, Walster & Berscheid) |
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Premise: We seek a balance of rewards and costs
- Dissatisfaction occurs if either party gets more out of/ puts more in than the other
- The more we contrubute the more we expect
- Equity is highly correlated with satisfaction and endurance in US
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Short Term: Fun, Interesting, Peaceful, Affectionate, amusement, appearance, presence,
Long Term: Amusement, faithfulness, twosome, frankness, affection, unspoken rules, recognition, averaging |
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