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Relational Dialectics Theory
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Communication
Undergraduate 3
04/10/2015

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RDT
Definition
  • people in relationships experience ongoing tensions between contradictory impulses
  • contradictions can't always be resolved
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monologic approach
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views contradictions as "either/or"

ex:  either close or distant

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dualistic approach
Definition
views contradictions as unrelated because relationships are evaluated differently at different times
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dialectic approach
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views contradictions as "both/and"
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assumption #1
Definition

relationships are not linear

  • rejects the term "relational development"
  • swings back and forth between contradictory desires held by one or both partners
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assumption #2
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relational life is characterized by change

  • relationships develop as new life events occur
  • quantitative and qualitative nature of the relationship changes with life changes
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assumption #3
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contradiction is the fundamental fact of relational life

  • pushes/pulls of relational life = ongoing
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assumption #4
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communication is central to organizing and negotiating relational contradictions

  • com is a tool
  • dialectic unity:  the way people use com to make sense of contradictions in their relationships
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elements of dialectics
Definition
  • totality:  interdependence of people in a relationship; includes social and cultural contexts
  • contradiction
  • motion:  relationships change over time
  • praxis:  humans are choice-makers, affected by...
    • previous choices, others' choices, cultural/social conditions
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interactional dialectics
Definition
  • autonomy and connection:  simultaneous desires to maintain indp. and to fulfill the need for affiliation
  • openness and protection:  conflicting desires to be open and maintain privacy
  • novelty and predictability:  contradictory needs for the comfort of stability and excitement of change
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contextual dialects:

public and private dialectic

Definition
  • tension of having a private relationship in a public life
  • public expectations favor kin relationships over friendships
  • double agency:  some relationships have both public and private functions
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contextual dialectics:

real and ideal dialectic

Definition
  • contrasting expectations one has of a relationship vs. what actual happens
  • expectations might be idealized
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responses to dialectics:

cyclic alternation

Definition
  • choosing one of the opposing tensions to feature for a while and then choosing the other
  • ex:  sibling relationships
  • all strategies are improvisational, affected by time, and can be complicated by unintended consequences
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responses:

segmentation

Definition
  • isolating areas of a relationship in which a tension will be emphasized
  • ex:  a married couple who own a business together stress predictability at work, but novelty at home
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responses:

selection

Definition
  • choosing one of the opposing tensions, ignoring the other
  • ex:  partners choose to be close at all times and ignore the need for autonomy
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responses:

integration

Definition
  • synthesizing opposing tensions
  • neutralizing:  compromise btwn opposing tensions
  • disqualifying:  counteracts the tension by exempting issue from communication
  • reframing:  transforming the dialectic so it doesn't seem contradictory
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critque
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weaknesses

  • parsimony:  too few dialectical tensions have been identified
    • some new dialectics could fit into the existing structures, perserving parsimony
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critique
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strengths

  • heuristic
  • utility:  explains push and pull of relational life better than other models
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