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Subjective sense of being male or female |
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Cultural norms for male & female behavior |
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- Presence of one unmatched X chromosome (XO); normal female external genitals, internal reproductive structures not fully developed.
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- Two X chromosomes, one Y chromosome (XXY), undersized external male genitals.
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- Chromosomally normal males insensitive to testosterone and other androgens; develop female external genitals.
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Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome |
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- A person whose gender identity is opposite to his or her biological sex.
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- Unhappiness with one’s biological sex or gender role.
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- Generalized notion based only on sex, race, religion, ethnic background, or similar criteria.
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(Gender-based) Stereotypes |
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Blending of typical male and female behaviors in one individual. |
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- More flexible in their behaviors,
- less limited by rigid gender-role assumptions,
- Have higher levels of self esteem, make better decisions in group settings,
- Have better communication skills
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- Based on three parts: Passion, intimacy, commitment.
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Sternberg's Triangular Theory |
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- Passion builds then fades.
- Intimacy and commitment continue to build.
- Variations in components yield different kinds of love.
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Sternberg's Triangular Theory |
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Extreme absorption in another person; romantic love. |
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Passionate Love (infatuation) |
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- Intense psychological feelings, generalized psysiological arousal, strong sexual desire, avoid conflict, feelings of completeness, short-lived.
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Passionate Love (infatuation) |
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Friendly affection, deep attachment; based on familiarity with loved one. |
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- Less intense, familiarity and tolerance for short-comings, enduring.
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Six styles of loving as proposed by John Lee |
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Storge – compassionateTLudus – game-playingAgape – altruisticPragma – pragmaticMania – possessiveEros - romantic |
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- Exposure effect, familiarity breeds predictability / greater comfort, reflects shared interest.
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- Level of physical attractiveness, age, educational status and religion, race and ethnicity
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- Shared similar interests and activities,
- communicate better,
- confirm own views and experiences,
- supportive of values and beliefs
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- When someone shows they like us, we tend to like them back
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- increases self-esteem,
- increases likelihood of relationship enduring
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“what’s beautiful is good” belief |
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- status by association,
- most important in early stages,
- may be an indice of physical health,
- Heterosexual males place greater value.
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- Communication is critical, be spontaneous, plan for intimate time; don’t worry about frequency “standards”.
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- Sexual attraction to one’s own sex (homosexual), to the other sex (bisexual), or lack of sexual interest to either sex (asexual).
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Having erotic and romantic feelings for members of the same sex. |
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A homosexual person, typically a homosexual male |
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Sexual attraction to both men and women. |
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- Anatomical parts of the body which are involved in sexual reproduction; females: cervix, clitoris, fallopian tubes; Males: penis, scrotum, testicles.
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Primary Sexual Characteristics |
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- gonads; testes or ovaries
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Secondary Sexual Characteristics |
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- sexual conquest
i. Non aggressive or sexually inexperienced regarded negatively |
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- : Nice girls say no
Sexuality regarded negatively |
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- Kissing, holding, touching, manual and oral stimulation of genitals.
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Noncoital Sexual Expression |
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- Oral-genital activity has increased in adolescence
- how “far to go” often an issue
- learning about sexual intimacy
- Technically can stay a virgin.
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Noncoital Sexual Expression |
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- Hormonal differences decline
- Fewer gender-based duties
- More power for women, more emotionality in men
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- Behaviors not typically expressed by most people in our society.
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Atypical Sexual Behaviors |
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- Uncommon types of sexual expression. Not normal arousal activity patters that:
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- recurrent intense sexually arousing fantasies / urges / behaviors,
- last at least six months,
- are distressing or cause problems to the person.
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Mostly seen in men, involve objects / non-consenting partners or physical pain or humiliation, usually develop during adolescence and frequently show life-long patterns. |
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- Related to what is acceptable to society and changes over time.
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- Term for atypical behavior (perverted, abnormal, deviant), carry pejorative value judgement.
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- A paraphilia involving using an object to obtain sexual arousal or satisfaction.
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- Shoes / leather / rubber are common objects of fetish,
- Often the object is required for arousal; focus on non-sexual body parts such as feet.
- Develops through incorporating the object or body part often through fantasy in a masturbation sequence in which the reinforcement of orgasm strengthens the fetishistic association.
- Children learn to associate sexual arousal with emotionally significant objects
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- The association of sexual expression with pain.
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Sadomasochistic (SM) Behavior |
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Obtaining sexual arousal through giving physical or psychological pain. |
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Obtaining sexual arousal through receiving physical or psychological pain. |
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Exposing one’s genitals to an unwilling observer. |
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- Sexual gratification by observing undressed or sexually interacting people without consent.
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- peeping tom”, does not want sexual activity with object of gaze,
- when consent for watching is given it is not voyeurism but troilism.
- Poorly developed sociosexual skills, strong inferiority inadequacy feelings, particularly directed toward potential sexual partners
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When consent for watching is given, it is no longer voyeurism but... |
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- Training in social skills, assertiveness, sexual education. Targets problems with developing intimacy, attempts to reduce problematic sexual desires, and utilizes covert sensitization.
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Treating with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy |
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a. that increase shame and discomfort regarding sexuality; lack of communication in the home, lack of positive role models. |
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Socialization Communication |
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Sexual communication inhibiter; limited vocabulary, embarrassment: |
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Sexual communication inhibiter: individualism vs. collectivism |
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Sexual communication inhibiter:Men use language to inform or to gain status or power, women use language to achieve intimacy and closeness. |
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Gender-based Communication Styles |
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Sexual communication inhibiter: difficulties in sexual communication for some can be rooted in anxieties about exposing themselves to a position vulnerable to judgment, criticism, and even rejection. |
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Three strategies that may be helpful to begin talking about sex are: |
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a. talk about talkingb. read and discuss: the written word may be easier, less threateningc. share sexual histories |
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a. Active listeningb. Maintain eye contactc. Provide feedbackd. Support communication effortse. Unconditional positive regardf. Paraphrasing |
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Six Characteristics of effective listening and feedback |
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Six characteristics of effective listening and feedback are: |
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a. Active listeningb. Maintain eye contactc. Provide feedbackd. Support communication effortse. Unconditional positive regardf. Paraphrasing |
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a. Asking questions; yes/no questions a. Open-ended questionsb. Either/or questionsb. Self-Disclosure c. Discussing sexual preference d. Giving permission |
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Discovering your partners needs |
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a. Taking responsibility for our own pleasureb. Making requests specificc. Using “I” language |
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Learning to make requests |
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i. Choose the right time and place ii. Temper complaints with praise iii. Avoid “why” questions; “why don’t you show more interest in me?” iv. Express negative emotions appropriately v. Limit complaints to one per discussion |
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Constructive Strategies for Expressing Complaints |
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a. Acknowledge a complaint and find something to agree withb. Ask clarifying questionsc. Express your feelingsd. Focus on future changes you can make |
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i. Appreciation (“thanks”) ii. Be clear (“I would prefer not to”) iii. Offer an alternative (“how about…”) |
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Three-step approach to saying no |
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a. Facial expressionb. Interpersonal distancec. Touchingd. Sounds |
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Nonverbal Sexual Communication |
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i. Leveling and editing ii. Validating iii. Volatile Dialogue |
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Gottman's Constructive Communication Tactics |
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i. Criticism ii. Contempt iii. Defensiveness iv. Stonewalling v. Belligerence |
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Gottman's Destructive Communication Tactics |
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