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Biology of Romantic Love
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(passionate love, infatuation, Eros, limerance)
Dopamine: increased energy, focused attention, reduced need for food and sleep (love: 5x as much)
Oxytocin: stimulated by touch, sensitizes nerves
Phenylethyamine (PEA): chemical cousin of amphetamines (body builds tolerance, 2-3 years cant produce enough PEA) |
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(companionate love)
Endorphins: higher level when around each other, relaxation, ease, comfort |
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Conjugal Love Problems
(E,N,A) |
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Egocentric Personalities: can't compromise, all about them
Narcissistic Personalities: same as above, need constant reassurance
Addictive Personalities |
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Secure: good connection with primary care givers (better shot at conjugal)
Avoidant: poor relationship with primary care givers, more challenged for adult relationship, withdraw
Anxious/Ambivalent: spotty care from care givers, don't know what to expect |
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Colors of Love Models
(P,A,L,M,E,S) |
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(Lee)
Pragma: realistic, looking for best deal, wants lasting love
Agape: selfless, altruistic, unconditional love
Ludus: plays the game of love, enjoys seduction and winning the challenge, no value for commitment/intimacy
Mania: dramatic, excitement, all consuming love (if partner doesn't call, sit by the phone as a wreck waiting)
Eros: passionate love (can't be average)
Storge: wants conjugal love, stability and comfort is goal |
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| Top Reasons for Divorce in US |
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Communication Problems
Spouse Infidelity
Constant Fighting
Emotional Abuse
Physical Abuse
Leaving for Other Relationship |
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50% marriages in US end in divorce
Average 7.1 years before divorce (1st marriage)
67% of divorced people will divorce again
75% of the time, females initiate the divorce |
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Class Poll on Love
How many of you thought you were "in love" with another person?
Of that ___ how many of you would say that feeling lasted?
Can you love some one and want to be in a relationship with someone without sexual attraction? |
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Yes: 83% No:17%
Yes: 65% No: 35%
Yes: 93% No: 7%
Yes: 33% No: 66% |
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Survivor/Victim
Secondary Survivor |
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Person who was sexually assaulted
Friend/family of victim, also have to deal with trauma |
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Statistics:
____ women and ___ men will be victims of sexual violence
Females often assaulted between ___ and ___. Males often before ____.
__% of victims are female, __% are male.
__% of attackers are male, __% are female.
Most sexual assault victims know their victims ___% nationally, __% on college campuses, __% at CSU
__% of sexual assault reports are false. |
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1/4 , 1/6
HS sophomore, College sophomore year
90, 10
98, 2
75-80, 95-97, 97
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Colorado Definitions:
Sexual Assault
Rape
Consent |
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Umbrella term for an unlawfule sexual act without consent
penetration of mouth/anus/vagina with fingers/penis/tongue/etc.
Cooperation in act and attitude, exercise of free will, knowledge of what is happening. |
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Fetishism Disorder
Partialism Fetish
Media Fetish
Form Fetish
Function Fetish |
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sexual fantasies, urges, or behaviors involving the use of non-living objects and/or body parts for primary arousal
Fetish is not the primary source of arousal.
Exaggerated arousal by feeling of inanimate material.
Exaggerated arousal of the shape or form of inanimate objects.
Exaggerated arousal because of an inanimate objects' function. |
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Transvestism Fetish
Transgender
MtF reassignment
FtM reassignment |
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Cross-dress for sexual arousal
A person born with an anatomical body which is different than their internal gender representation.
Vaginoplasty
Phalloplasty |
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| Sexual contact with animals as preferred means of sexual interaction |
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| Sexual arousal from rubbing up against strangers in crowded places |
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| Sexual attraction to prepubescent people |
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| Sexual arousal by exposing ones=self to another person |
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| Exaggerated arousal from watching unsuspecting people |
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| Arousal from being humiliated, bound, beaten, or otherwise made to suffer |
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| Arousal from inflicting pain |
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| Sexual attraction to dead people |
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| Nymphomania and Satyriasis |
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| Compulsive and out of control hyper-sexuality |
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| Arousal from oxygen deficiency during orgasm |
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| Threesome is the preferred mode of sex |
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| Desire to damage or soil a partner in their clothing |
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| Feces needed for sexual satisfaction |
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| Urine needed for sexual satisfaction |
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Caregivers' behaviors that promote a healthy attitude about sex/sexuality and set realistic limits based on culture
Caregivers' behaviors that promote unhealthy attitudes about sex/sexuality and/or set unrealistic limits based on culture |
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Infant boys- exhibit erections Infant girls- exhibit vaginal lubrication
Rhythmic manipulation of genitals at 2.5 to 3 years of age (cross cultural) |
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| Sexuality in Early Childhood (3-7y) |
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Increase in sexual interest and activity: Increases touching of genital, Sometimes do playful sexual things with other children
Form strange ideas about sex
Begins to understand genital differences
Enjoys hugging and kissing parents
Around 5yrs more modest
Cross cultural studies- kids will masturbate by 6 to 8 years of age |
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| Sexuality in Preadolescence (8-12y) |
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Homo-social organization: Boys hang out with boys, girls with girls (mostly)
Early first sexual experience
Many lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth report first attraction or experience |
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Statistics:
More than _/_ Americans have had premarital sex
Average American couples have coitus _-_ times per week in their 20s
__% will get married __% will divorce
Cohabitation of romantic partners:
19-24y: __%
35-29y: __%
Before marriage: __% |
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Sexual activity between a married person and someone other than one's spouse
Romantic Infidelity- fall in love with someone else
Accidental- drunk, heat of the moment, etc.
Open Marriage- contract between the two people agreeing on limits
Philanderers- "player" cheating
Swinging- a couple engages in a switch with other swinging couples |
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Class Poll: Is it cheating?
Relationship isn't "official"
Pseudo Date
Sleep in the same bed (no touching)
Girlfriend kisses "straight" girl
Steamy Facebook messages
"Work Spouse"
Private Dance at Strip Club
Viewing Porn |
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Class Poll (cross college)
63% yes, 37% no
(75% yes, 25% no)
30% yes,70 % no
(45% yes, 55% no)
48% yes, 51% no\
(32% yes, 68% no)
22% yes 78% no
(very close)
95% yes, 5 % no
(80%yes, 20% no)
32% yes, 67% no
(same)
19 % yes, 81% no
(16% yes, 84% no)
13% yes, 87% no |
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