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Marriage and Parenting
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1st Grade
11/10/2009

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Term
Who came up with the relationship stages?
Definition
Pat Love 
Term
What are the four relationship stages?
Definition
infatuation, post-rapture, discovery, connection 
Term
Infatuation- 
Definition

    The infatuation/romantic phase normally lasts 3-6 months.

    The more relationships you have, the shorter this period gets.

    The love “drug” is fully out of your system in about 2 years.

We are attracted to people who are different from us

You attracted to someone with the most diverse DNA from you

If you are an extrovert you tend to be attracted to an introvert

There a literally a million neurotransmitters that are released in your brain… “love drug”

All of a sudden the world has color, everything is seen in a more positive way, increased energy, stay up all night

Law of diminishing of returns--- first kiss is not like kissing after two years 

Term
Signs of infatuation (7)
Definition

    Heightened interest

    Euphoria

    Increased energy

    Loss of appetite

    Lowering of defenses

    Positive outlook

    Increased libido

Term
Post Rapture- 
Definition

    Return to prior interests

    More rational thinking

    More inclusion of other people

    Less exclusivity

    Less sexual intensity

    Return to prior relationship styles

Term
Signs of post-rapture?
Definition

    Defenses and old patterns return

   Pursuing (anxious-ambivalent)

   Distancing (avoidant)

    Pursuers start to pursue / distancers start to distance

Tends toward one of two attachment styles

When the relationship gets uncomfortable- you tend to either be anxious or avoidant 

Term
What are some characteristics of pursuers (anxious/ambivalents)?
Definition

    Tend to talk more

    Ask more questions

    Highly sensitive to any form of rejection

    Focuses on negatives not positives

    Has difficulty taking in positive reinforcement

    Often seen as insatiable

If person senses that he or she is not as important as before---there is a sense of rejection, place in relationship is diminished

Possible to make up evidence

Term
What are some qualities of distancers (avoidant)?
Definition

    Withdraw

    Stonewall

    Resist

    Give little information

    Are highly sensitive to any form of control

    Often quite rational

    Look more together

Tend to be passive aggressive

Does not want to be controlled, not as excited to hang out with the other person as much

Needs some space 

Term
Discovery- 
Definition

    Flexibility

    Examining needs

    Making adjustments

    Transforming low spots

    Provides opportunity to work as a team and deepen your connection

    Keeps the relationship exciting 

Term
Connection- 
Definition

    Talking/listening

    Touching/feeling

    Sexual sharing

    Supporting/being supported

    Helping/being helped

    Working toward common goals

    Affirming/being affirmed

Term
Marital Satisfaction and Stability- 
Definition

    Stable marriages have higher levels of affection and fewer critical comments

    Women’s satisfaction linked to the distribution of household responsibilities

    Strong marriages are able to resolve conflict

Term
What are the four parenting styles? (Darling)
Definition
passive, authoritarian, authoritative, uninvolved
Term
authoritarian- 
Definition
highly demanding and directive but non-responsive to emotional needs 
Term
authoritative
Definition
both demanding and responsive 
Term
permissive (indulgent)
Definition
more responsive than demanding, less strict  
Term
uninvolved- 
Definition
low in responsiveness and demandingness 
Term
outcomes for authoritarian?
Definition
children do fairly well in school and don’t get into trouble but have poorer social skills, lower self-esteem, and higher depression 
Term
outcomes for authoritative-
Definition
children do well socially, academically, and emotionally
Term
outcomes for permissive- 
Definition
children are more likely to have academic and behavior problems but have higher self-esteem, better social skills, lower depression 
Term
outcomes for uninvolved- 
Definition
children do poorly in all areas 
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