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1. Passion
2. Intimacy
3. commitment |
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| Sternberg's 3 elements that make up love |
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| Passion can be misleading because it can burnout in _______________ months. |
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| physiological arousal of fear of heights |
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| Dutton and Aron's 1974 study determined that the men on the bridges were responding based on what? |
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| Sternberg's HOT element of love. You can develop this first and intimacy and commitment later. |
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| Sternberg's WARM element of love. Includes trust, sharing, relying, etc. Allows you to know the other individual. |
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| Sternberg's COOL element of love. Intimacy and passion can lead to this. |
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decision to love
decision to maintain love |
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| The 2 elements involved in commitment. |
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Primary love style.
Passionate & physical love. |
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Primary love style.
Game-playing love.
Enjoys the game of love.
Have lots of partners. |
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Primary love style.
Friendship love.
Often begins as a friendship & develops into love. |
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Secondary love style.
Logical "Shopping List" love.
List of characteristics essential in a partner.
STORGE + LUDUS |
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Secondary love style.
Highly possessive love.
Draw much self & well-being from partner.
EROS + LUDUS |
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Secondary love style.
All-giving love.
Total, selfless love.
Committed no matter what.
EROS + STORGE |
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Term
1. Initiating
2. Experimenting
3. Intensifying
4. Integrating
5. Bonding |
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Definition
| Name Knapp & Vangelist's 5 steps of coming together. |
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Term
1. Differentiating
2. Circumscribing
3. Stagnating
4. Avoiding
5. Terminating |
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| Name Knapp & Vangelist's 5 steps of coming apart. |
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Term
| A voluntary interdependent association between 2 people, intended to facilitate social and emotional goals. |
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| What is the definition of friendship? |
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| Non-institutionalized institution |
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| One of the main challenges of friendship is that it is a ________________________. |
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1. Sexual/marital
2. Parent/child
3. Work
4. Friendship |
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| Name the 4 basic relational institutions around the world. |
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1. volunteer in times of need
2. trust & confide in you
3. stand up for us in our absence
4. show emotional support
5. make us happy when together
6. not jealous/critical of our other friendships
7. ask for personal advice
8. will not nag
9. joke/tease with us
10. disclose personal thoughts & feelings |
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Definition
| Name the 10 expectations for friendships. |
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Term
1. Emotional benefits
2. Cognitive benefits
3. Material benefits
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| 3 types of benefits of friendship. |
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1. Determining the type of emotional bond.
2. Dealing with inequality in the friendship.
3. Presenting relationship as authentic to others.
4. Dealing with sexuality. |
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| Name O'Meara's 4 challenges of cross-sex friendships. |
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Term
1. Families are a conservative force. (conserve culture, traditions, etc.)
2. Family provides a buffer between you and the outside world. |
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| Name 2 characteristics of familial relationships. |
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| Power based on a position. It is rooted in 1 or both parents. In a traditional family, it is rooted in the father. |
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1. Consensus approach
2. Accommodation strategy
3. Defacto approach |
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| Name the 3 ways families can engage in decision-making. |
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| Everyone reaches total agreement. This is the most effective decision-making. |
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| Less powerful or less involved individuals give in to the more powerful or more involved individuals. |
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| Someone steps in & makes the executive decision. |
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1. Chain structure
2. "Y" structure
3. Wheel structure
4. All-channel structure |
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| Name the 4 basic family structures. |
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A --> B --> C --> D
sister tells dad; dad tells mom; mom tells son; son tells other sister, etc. |
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1 member serves as gatekeeper of information for the rest of the family.
1 person is information source & that information goes through 1 other person before going to everyone else. |
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1 person is information source.
There is no gatekeeper.
More democratic approach. |
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| Everyone has access to everyone else. |
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1. Traditional relationship
2. Independent relationship
3. Separate relationship |
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| Name the 3 main Husband-Wife systems. |
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Highly interdependent.
Large influence on each other.
Believe in mutual sharing.
Traditional sex roles. |
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Stresses individuality.
Emphasis on "me" & "you" (not "us").
Don't spend as much time together.
Don't have traditional sex roles.
Egalitarian. |
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Live together.
See marriage as a matter convenience.
Not a lot of intimacy.
Tend to be very traditional in sex roles. |
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