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| What are some things NOT to do if a client is grieving according to David Foote? |
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Definition
Don't:
• Avoid talking about it
• Distract or cheer up – try to shift feelings
• Give advice on how to cope
• Try to solve the “problem” of grief
• Judge bereaved
• Judge depth of grief
• Encourage early replacement |
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| What is wrong with saying the statement, "at least you had 15 years together" to a client? |
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Definition
| it is intellectualizing or rescuing which can discount or negate the reality of the bereaved |
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Term
Rachel: “She was by my side through thick and thin over the years. She loved me better than any human”
What should you say:
A: At least we have euthanasia to end her suffering
B: She's had a good life. You really couldn't ask for more.
C: She was there for you through thick and thin and now you’re alone |
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Definition
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Mary: “I just don’t know how I’m going to be able to live without him”
What should you say:
A: “Don’t think like that Mary. I’m sure you’ll be OK”
B: “Right now the thought of life without Rover is too painful to
contemplate.” |
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Definition
B (empathic)
A is rescuing
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| What are 6 aspects of euthanasia that you should consider during the procedure to help be in control and yet respectful to owner/pet? |
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Definition
• No interruptions
• Comfort for owner and pet (seating/ lighting/space)
• Explain in detail what you are going to do and
possible reactions from their pet
• Pronounce death using a stethoscope (supposed to say "died" or "dead" not "gone" "put to sleep" etc.)
• Offer time afterwards
• Treat the body with respect (blanket / carriage / excrement) |
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Term
| What are 3 things clients want to know regarding euth's |
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Definition
-know they are doing the right thing
-respect to be shown to them and their pet
-the procedure t be smooth, peaceful, and dignified |
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| What should you do after a euth? |
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Definition
-give written info on grief
-don't let drive until settled
-sympathy card and phone call 3-5 days and 1-2 weeks
-strongly validate and suggest counselling to anyone who is struggling
-give lifeline # |
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| What are some things to be before a euth? |
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Definition
-offer written info on euth
-ask owner to be in toy/blanket
-don't be late
-set up separate area
-acknowledge diffculty/ask how how feeling
-support the decision
-offer time beforehand |
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