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Family Communication ch 6 (part 1)
roles
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Communication
Undergraduate 4
10/14/2010

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Term
Roles:  guidelines for behavior
Definition

Recurring patterns of behavior developed through interaction that family members use to fulfill family functions

 

Patterns and pre-existing ideas that come from family of origin that have developed over generations

 

Fulfill family functions

Everybody has a job that helps the family move forward

 

Involve expectations for behavior

put laundry away, bring dishes to table, etc

 

Role expectations come about through shared meanings parents have shared meanings first, then teach them to their kids

Term
interactive perspective
Definition

we develop role guidelines through interactions (shared meanings)

Term

First family function:  gender socialization

 

Definition

Roles are related to gender

 

Gender is most impacted by family of origin

 

Gender is a scale (very feminine to very masculine)

Term

 

Second family function:  nurturing and support

 

Definition

Comm. is the primary way parents communicate caring, love, values, and a sense of community to their children. 

Through advice, directives, and answers to questions, children learn both what their parents and society expect of them. 

 

It is important for children of both sexes to see the father sharing parental responsibility

 

Not only do we provide nurturing of children, we provide support and empathy

Term

Third family function:  individual development

Definition

When we teach our children to be self-sufficient, well-functioning members of society

 

When we don’t do this properly, children become super dependent and enmeshed 

 

Part of this process is encouraging individual choice

Term

Fourth family function:  maintenance and management

                

Definition

Relates to multigenerational maintenance (keeping in touch with grandparents, etc)

               

Internal/external boundaries are part of maintenance

              

Also, decision making (on part of parents) and all daily tasks

Term

Fifth family function:  to provide basic resources

Definition

Traditional gender roles for parents still very relevant

 

Although careers are great, sometimes you have to take jobs for which you are overqualified in order to support your family

 

You do what you have to do for your family

Term
dual-earner vs. dual-career couples
Definition

Dual-career couples:  both partners have careers

 

Dual earner couples:  one has a career, one just has a job

Term

Role appropriation

Definition
how we learn, act, and give up our family role (when the time comes)
Term
Role expectaions
Definition

come from society, media, religion, significant others (ppl who are important to us, role models who can provide us w/ guidance for playing our role)

 

Also learn role expectations through complementary others:  opposite or reciprocal positions to us (me=wife, my complementary other is hubby)

Term
significant others
Definition

people who are important to us

 

provide us with models from which we develop role expectations

Term
complementary others
Definition

those who fulfill reciprocal role functions that directly impact on your role.  

 

to determine our own role, we compare ourselves to our complementary others

"what are you doing, and what does it say about what I should be doing?"

Term
T/F:  our roles (and their expectations) change over time
Definition

True:  Role expectations change over time, and involve conflict

 

As we go through life, we negotiate our role (children AND parents)

Term
research on debirefing
Definition

Research fact:  couples who take time to debrief and share their work experiences greatly increase their relationship satisfaction. 

 

It is as simple as asking, “how was your day?”

 

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