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The most common misconceptions about listening (the truth) |
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Definition
- listening and hearing are not the same thing
- listening is not a natural process
- all listeners do not receive the same message
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The five stages of the listening process |
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Definition
- hearing
- attending- the act of paying attention
- understanding
- responding
- remembering
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faulty listening behaviors |
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Definition
- pseudolistening-appear attentive, actually arent listening or paying attention at all
- selective listening - responds only to the parts that interest them
- defensive listening - take innocent comments as personal
- ambushing- looking for info for a later attack
- insulated listening- avoid certain topics completely
- insensitive listening- incapable of looking beyond words
- stage hogging - try to turn the topic of conversations into something about themselves
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Reasons for poor listening |
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Definition
- message overload
- rapid thought - we have time to focus on other things than the words, mentally, so our brain tends to wander
- psychological noise
- physical noise
- hearing problems
- faulty assumptions
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Characteristics of nonverbal communication |
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Definition
- has value
- primarily relational
- ambiguous
- differs from verbal
- it is important
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Differences between verbal and nonverbal communication |
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Definition
Verbal: one dimmension (words only),intermitten flow (speaking and silence), less subject to misunderstanding, less impact if verbal and nonverbal are contradictory, usually deliberate
Nonverbal: multiple dimmensions, continuous flow, more ambiguous, stronger impact, often unintentional |
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Functions of nonverbal communication |
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Definition
- repeating
- substituting
- complementing
- accenting
- regulating
- contradicting
- deceiving
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Characteristics that distinguish interpersonal relationships from impersonal ones |
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Definition
- more than an acquaintance
- rare
- self disclosure
- intimacy
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Dimensions and influences of intimacy in relationships |
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Definition
- physical, emotional, intellectual
- gender and culture both influence intimacy
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Characteristics of effective and appropriate self-disclosure |
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Definition
- cultural influence is considered
- usually occurs in dyads
- both parties should be sharing the same amount of information
- occurs incrementally
- relatively scarce
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Nonassertive communication |
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Definition
- unwilling/incapable of expressing feelings in a conflict
- lets others choose in decisions
- low self sufficiency
- gives in
- others respond with disrespect, guilt, anger, frustration
- succeeds by luck or charity of others
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directly aggressive communication |
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Definition
- attacks the other persons position
- chooses for other people
- high or low self sufficiency
- other people are hurt, defensive, humiliated in response
- succeeds by beating out others
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passive aggressive communication |
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Definition
- expresses hostility in an obscure way
- chooses for others without them knowing
- seemingly high self sufficiency, but is low
- uses a concealed attack (crazy making)
- others become confused, frustrated, and feel manipulated
- wins by manipulation
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- conveys the message in a roundabout way
- chooses for others without them knowing it
- high or low self sufficiency
- they are strategic, and oblique
- people unkowingly comply or resist
- they gain unwitting compliance of others
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- chooses for themselves, but is accepting that the other person may not aggree
- usually high self sufficiency
- they dirctly confront the problem
- mutual respect
- attempts win-win situation
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- manuscript
- memorized
- impromptu
- extemporaneous
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Win/Win - both get what they want Win/Lose - one gets what they want while the other doesn't lose/lose- neither get what they want Compromise - neither get exactly what they want, but meet in the middle so that both parties are happy with the outcome |
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What are the three C's of persuasive speaking? |
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Definition
Charisma-a special quality of likability and enthusiasm. Character- the audiences perception that the speaker is honest and impartial Competence- the speaker's expertise on the subject. Demonstrated through personal accounts of experience,status such as a degree or the like, or simply being well prepared and informed |
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Types of logical fallacies |
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Definition
Attack on the person instead of the argument Reduction to the absurd Either-Or False Cause Appeal to Authority Bandwagon Appeal |
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Empathic Critical Informational |
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Types of Empathic Listening |
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Advising Judging Analyzing Questioning Comforting Prompting Reflecting |
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Types of Nonverbal Communications |
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Definition
Time appearance body movement space Touch Voice |
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Grouo Decision Making Processes |
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Consensus- all members agree. best in small groups Majority- decision made by the bigger portion of the group
Minority- small representative group makes decisions for others Expert Opinion Authority Rule |
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Dysfuntional Roles of Group Members |
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Blocker-negative stance on all issues Aggressor- struggles for status by deflating the status of others Dominator-interrupts and talks a lot, authoritative, tries to monopolize the groups time Deserter- withdraws in some way recognition seeker Joker Cynic-discounts chances for groups success |
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Social/Maintenance Roles in Groups |
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Supporter/Encourager-praises others Harmonizer-reconciles disagreements Tension-jokes or reduces the formality of the situation
Conciliator-offers new ideas when their ideas are involved, willing to admit errors
gatekeeper-keeps communication channels open
Feeling Expressor-makes known the groups feelings
Follower-passively follows groups movement |
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Functional Roles in Groups |
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Initiator/contributor-gives ideas and solutions
Information seeker-asks for clarification, seeks other resources, questions things
Information giver-states beliefs or opinions of solutions
Elaborator/clarifier-expands on others ideas
Coordinator-clarifies relationships between information, opinions, and solutions
Diagnostician-indicates what problems are Orienter/Summarizer-summerize what has taken place
Energizer-prods the group to action Secretary- keeps notes
Evaluator/critic-constructively analyzes progress |
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Term
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Legitimate Power-power from the position one possesses
Coercive-threat or actual imposition of unwanted consequences
Reward Power-granting or promise of desired consequences
Expert Power-from what people believe they know or can do (like doctors)
Information Power-the information they possess can help the group reach the goal Referent Power- Being well liked |
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Authoritarian-relies on legitimate, coercive, and reward power. Democratic-other members have a say in decisions, but the final say is still made my the leader
Laissez-Faire- leader gave up the power to dictate |
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