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connection we establish when we communicate with another person |
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interpersonal relationship |
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perception shared by two people of an ongoing connection that results in the development of relational expectations and varies in interpersonal intimacy |
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degree to which relational partners mutually accept and confirm each other's sense of self |
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relationship of circumstance |
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interpersonal relationship that exists because of life circumstances (who your family members are, where you work or study, and so on) |
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interpersonal relationship you choose to initiate, maintain, and, perhaps, terminate. |
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degree to which you want to form or maintain an interpersonal relationship |
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short-term initial attraction |
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degree to which you sense a potential for developing an interpersonal relationship |
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long-term maintenance attraction |
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degree of liking or positive feelings that motivate us to maintain or escalate a relationship |
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predicted outcome value (POV) |
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potential for a relationship to confirm our self-image compared to its potential costs |
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physical nearness to another that promotes communication and thus attraction |
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nonverbal cues that allow us to asses relationship potential (POV) |
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liking those that like us |
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having comparable personalities, values, upbringing, personal experiences, attitudes, and interests. |
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needs that match; each partner contributes something to the relationship that the other person needs. |
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degree to which a person is able to influence his or her partner |
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relationship in which one partner has a greater need for the other to meet his or her needs |
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interdependent relationship |
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relationship in which each person has a similar amount of power over the other |
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complementary relationship |
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relationship in which power is divided unevenly, with one partner dominating and the other submitting |
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relationship in which both partners attempt to have the same level of power |
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competitive symmetric relationship |
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relationship in which both partners vie for control or dominance of the other |
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submissive symmetric relationship |
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relationship in which neither partner wants to take control or make decisions |
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relationship in which power shifts back and forth between the partners, depending on the situation |
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power that is based on respect for a person's position |
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power that comes from our attraction to another person, or the charisma a person possesses |
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power based on a person's knowledge and experience |
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power based on a person's ability to satisfy our needs |
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power based on the use of sanctions or punishments to influence others |
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persuasive actions taken to get others to comply with our goals |
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triangular theory of love |
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theory that suggests that all loving relationships can be described according to three dimensions: intimacy, commitment, and passion |
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sexual, erotic love based on the pursuit of physical beauty and pleasure |
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game-playing love based on the enjoyment of another |
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solid love found in friendships and family, based on trust and caring |
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obsessive love driven by mutual needs |
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practical love based on mutual benefits |
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selfless love based on giving yourself for others |
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married partners who are interdependent and who exhibit a lot of sharing and companionship |
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married partners who exhibit sharing and companionship and are psychologically interdependent but allow each other individual space |
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married partners who support the notion of marriage and family but stress the individual over the couple |
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married couples in which the husband and wife each adopt a different perspective (traditional, independent separate) on the marriage |
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