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Proxemity/Geographic Closeness of Relationships |
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Proxemity/Geographic Closeness
One is significantly more likely to marry someone geographically close
- If we know we will be physically close, we overlook the other's less desirable traits
- Opportunities for communication are greater
- Familiarity in itself may increase liking
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Assortive Mating- mating based on sameness in 6 variables: age, ethnic background, race, religion, socioeconomic status, and education.
- Psychological characteristics show similarities: attitudes, opinions, worldviews, verbal abilities, degree of quarrelsomeness, ingenuousness, extroversion
- Similarity attracts in non-romantic relationships also: we like people who are like us and dislike people who are different.
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Situations Modify Attraction |
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Situations Modify Attraction
- Perceived reciprocity of liking is whether you think the other also likes you (may be more important than attitude similarity in long-term relationships).
- Changes in one's levels of self-esteem may affect who is liked.
- Anziety or one's need to interact affects affiliation: people who share unpleasant experiences become more cohesive/desirable.
- Isolation from the rewards of others affects who is desirable.
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Climate or Social-Psychological Context |
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Climate or Social-Psychological Context
- Every message has a content and relationship dimension
- Messages imply a certain relationship by their phasing
- Confirming messages cause the receiver to value him/herself more
- Disconfirming messages cause the receiver to value him/herself less.
- Not all messages should be confirming.
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Confirming Climates have messages that:
- Acknowledge the person
- Provide an authentic response to other
- Focus on listening
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Disconfirming Climates have messages characterized by:
- Impervious responses (ignoring)
- Interrupting responses (break in)
- Tangential responses (go off topic)
- Impersonal responses (disengagement)
- Disagreement focusing on person rather than ideas
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Gibb's 6 categories of supportive/defensive climates |
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Gibb's 6 categories of Supportive/Defensive Climates
- Supportive- Description, Problem Orientation, Spontaneity, Empathy, Equality, Provisionalism
- Defensive- Evaluation, Control, Strategy, Neutrality, Superiority, Certainty
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Affection and Control are 2 primary relationship dimensions
- Affection is the love/hate aspect
- Control is the dominance/submission dimension
- Behavior on the affection dimension tends to elicit similar responses (liking elicits liking)
- Behavior on the control dimension tends to elicit complementary responses (submission elicits dominance)
- Without agreement over control, it is continually renegotiated
- Affection and control are independent dimensions
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Knapp's Life Cycle Model- Coming Together |
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Knapp's Life Cycle Model- Coming Together
- Initiating (show interest in communicating)
- Experimenting (sample topics to learn about other)
- Intensifying (beginning of intimacy/self-disclosure)
- Integrating (persons consider themselves a unit)
- Bonding (a formal ritualizing of relationship)
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Knapp's Life Cycle Model- Coming Apart |
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Knapp's Life Cycle Model- Coming Apart
- Differentiating (focus shifts to differences over similarity)
- Circumscribing (reducing frequency/intimacy of contact)
- Stagnating (communication more like strangers)
- Avoiding (physical or psychological separation)
- Terminating (end of relationship)
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Duck's 4 Relationship Dissolution Phases |
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Duck's 4 Relationship Dissolution Phases
- Intraphysic (partner focusing internally on problems, begin to complain to others)
- Dyadic (confrontation, discussion of issues)
- Social (talk to others about breakup, seek support for decision)
- Grave Dressing (look to others for justification of breakup, create account of relationship)
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5 Maintenances Strategies in Romantic Relationships |
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5 Maintenances Strategies in Romantic Relationships
- Positivity
- Openness
- Assurance
- Networks
- Tasks
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Stages in Family Development |
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Stages in Family Development
- Families with preschool children focus on language acquisition
- In families with school-age children, outside influences become important (Parental acceptance/rejection and control/autonomy is important)
- Families with adolescent children face increased conflict
- Stepfamilies face even more complexities
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Divorce
- Half of all occur within first 7 years
- Increasing in the over 50 age group, most often initiated by women
- Half of all marriages in the US are remarriages for at least one partner
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